The plan was never the problem
Last year, how many things did you genuinely intend to do?Not vague wishes. Real intentions. I'm going to work out three times a week. I'm going to write every morning. I'm going to call my parents mo…
Last year, how many things did you genuinely intend to do?
Not vague wishes. Real intentions. I'm going to work out three times a week. I'm going to write every morning. I'm going to call my parents more.
You meant it. You weren't lying to yourself.
So why didn't most of it happen?
In 2002, a researcher named Paul Sheeran pulled together 10 separate meta-analyses, 422 individual studies and asked a simple question: how well does what people intend to do predict what they actually do?
The answer: intentions explain about 28% of the variance in behavior.
Flip that number around. Over 70% of whether you follow through has nothing to do with how much you wanted it, how clear your goal was, or how motivated you felt when you set it.
This isn't a study about lazy people. It's a study about all people. The gap shows up whether the goal is exercise, saving money, or finishing a project. It shows up in people with strong willpower and people without it.
Here's the part that matters most: the people driving this gap aren't the ones who never intended to act. It's the ones who did clearly, sincerely and still didn't. Researchers call them "inclined abstainers." They're not unmotivated. They're unsupported.
Motivation was never the missing piece. A system that works on the days motivation doesn't show up is.
That's the whole premise behind Brick. Not another way to want it more. A way to do it anyway.
Lay today's brick.